For Men Facing an Unplanned Pregnancy

An unplanned pregnancy can leave a man feeling powerless, confused, or overwhelmed. If you’re here, you may be asking questions like:


  • What is my role in this?
  • How can I support her?
  • What are my options?
  • What if I’m grieving a past abortion?

You are not alone. Men often feel left out of the conversation—but your voice matters, and your emotions are valid.

Understanding Your Role and Emotions


You may feel fear, guilt, or anger. Maybe you feel unsure about what to say or do. Men are often expected to be “strong,” but this can lead to silence and emotional isolation—especially after an abortion.

Some men experience deep, lasting grief—yet never talk about it.

🔗 The Silent Post-Abortion Grief of Men – Psychology Today

Recognizing your emotions is the first step toward healing.

What You Need to Know


  • Your reaction influences her decision more than you think.
  • Pressure—whether to parent, abort, or stay silent—can damage trust and relationships.
  • Compassionate support empowers—not controls—her choice.
  • Your child’s life is also part of your story.

🔗 Men and Abortion – What You Need to Know (PDF)

What To Do

  • Stay calm and listen.
  • Ask how she feels—then listen again.
  • Seek guidance from a counselor or trusted mentor.
  • Explore parenting or adoption options together.
What To Not Do

  • Disappear. Silence may signal indifference.
  • Push abortion as the only “easy” answer.
  • Let fear make the decision for you.

What Makes A Hero


A Father's Choice

Finding Healing After Abortion


If you’ve experienced—or supported—an abortion in the past, you may still carry emotional wounds. Many men suppress these feelings for years before recognizing their impact.

Healing is possible. Real men grieve. Real men recover.

🔗 Post-Abortion Trauma in Men – Eternal Perspective Ministries

Get Support Now


You deserve to be heard. Help is available through:

  • One-on-one counseling
  • Men’s support groups
  • Faith-based recovery programs

No matter what’s happened, there’s a path forward.

 

Your story isn’t over. There’s strength in seeking healing.